What is new and good in your life? Please message me and let me know? We are in this life adventure together and with all it's ups and downs we have got to stick together. The one person we have to rely on, confide in, bust up laughing with, love, care for, trust, believe in, be there for, support and who has our back no matter what... is our best friend. We talk to our best friend with kindness. We are patient with them. We have compassion. When they doubt them self, we say,"Heck No, You've Got This"! When our best friend has been blessed with motherhood and she is expressing that she feels like she is failing, you tell her she is a BADASS LIFE CREATOR who is a wonderful mama. Your best friend comes to you feeling very low and depressed. She tells you that she is fat! She looks gross and feels disgusting... You tell her that she is so beautiful. She doesn't realize how beautiful she really is. You tell her that she is being too hard on herself. When your friend hasn't reached all her goals and she is feeling like she just is not doing anything right. You tell your friend to focus on what they did accomplish. They are doing a lot right and do not put too much on yourself. Your friend has made so much progress. Look where you were and see how far you have come! That is what you say to your best friend. We do not say anything negative to our best friend, especially when they need us the most.
Now, do me a big favor please- Take a look at yourself in the mirror. There is your best friend!!! If you wouldn't say it to your best friend... Don't say it to yourself because you are the best est friend you will ever have! See what happens when you flip the script in your head. The next time you hear a dialogue that is less then positive and supportive, just ask yourself,"Would I say this to my best friend in the same situation?" Then do not say it to yourself. You are an amazing human being who is doing this thing we call life. I believe in you. You are worth it.
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